Why do we shout in anger?
Message:
A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
MORAL:
When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.
A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
MORAL:
When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.
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10 Comments
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Comment by LadynhOER on March 17, 2009 at 5:52am - hehehe...di namAn.
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Comment by Vulnerable on March 17, 2009 at 3:27am - AH NA IF EVER NA MAGING FRIENDS MAN TAYO IN PERSON NA DI KITA TALAGA GAGALITIN BAKA SAMAIN PA AKO SAYO...HEHEHE PEACE!
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Comment by LadynhOER on March 14, 2009 at 10:35pm
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vulnerable,
hehehehe...bait nmn ako minsan iba lba lang ako magalit..
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Comment by Vulnerable on March 10, 2009 at 3:56am
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TO LADYNHOER:
KUNG NAGING MAGING KAIBIGAN PA TAYO IN PERSON NA DI AKO LALAPIT SAYO PAG GALIT KA...hahaha MAGKAIBA TALAGA MGA TAO BUT YOU NEED TO CONTROL YOUR ANGER, IT WON'T BRING ANY GOOD TO YOU.
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Comment by Maharain Benito on March 10, 2009 at 12:49am
- tnx for the comments, when i'm upset at galit na galit ako and i'm alone, eneexplain ko sa sarili ko ang reason kung bakit di ako pwede magalit, and when i'm with ibang tao parang naghahanap ako ng masisisi, at ayoko me magsalita pa na makakadagdag ng Temper ng Nerve ko kasi nakakasapak ako ng tao, but when i read the explaination, parang naging Calm ako everytime me ka argue ako.. and i'm wishpering at myself na don't make decession when you're mad kasi magsisisi ka.. kaya yon... ^_^
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Comment by LadynhOER on March 7, 2009 at 1:44am
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hehehe...
un lng ksi way na mwala anger ko..
hmm..
mgkakaiba tau.
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Comment by Vulnerable on March 6, 2009 at 11:02pm
- HINDI NAMAN.. WHAT WILL YOU GONNA DO? FOR ME, IT'S HOW I LET GO MY ANGER, PAG NASIGAW KO NA WLA NA YUN. GANUN LANG YUN, MABIGAT MASYADO SA DAMDAMIN KUNG KIKIMKIMIN KO PA. MAS NAKAKATAKOT KA NGA EH, NANINIPA KA PA.hehehe
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Comment by LadynhOER on March 5, 2009 at 4:37pm
- hahaha...kakatkot k pala bro...huhuhu
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Comment by Vulnerable on March 5, 2009 at 9:59am
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IT'S ALL TRUE. 2THUMBS UP FOR THAT!
LET ME SHARE MY IDEA, I SPEAK FOR MY SELF. MORE OFTEN I SHOUT WHEN I'M ANGRY BECAUSE IT'S HOW CAN I EASE PAIN AND ANGER, IT MAY NOT TOTALLY VANISHED THE FEELINGS BUT IT HELPS. FOR ME IF I DON'T SHOUT, I MIGHT DONE THINGS WORST THAN THAT.
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Comment by LadynhOER on March 5, 2009 at 1:06am
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great message..
my idea nako ngun..
well, i don't shout, but instead i'll give him a kick when i'm angry ..hahaha..
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